Saturday, September 23, 2006

Useless websearch of the day

Someone searched for breaking crossdressing habit and found my blog, way down the list. Of course, this was just a word coincidence, because there is nothing in this blog on the subject. Crossdressing isn't just a "habit." It can be an expression of one's identity, or a sexual fetish--frequently it's a combination of them. Where it's purely a fetish (a percentage I suspect is not that large), I suppose quitting might be possible for a strong-minded person. But for most crossdressers, where there is at least a measure of gender identity motivation, it's almost impossible. You can't suppress who you really are, not permanently.

"Purging," where a CD throws out all of the crossdressing items, is very common, but almost always replacements are obtained, sooner or later. Some CDs do this time after time after futile time, but they always return to crossdressing.

Of course, now there is something here about "breaking crossdressing habit"--basically, forget about it.

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